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Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.wellnesscounselingandtherapy.com/about daily 0.75 2025-08-27 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/60b437e9029a25310972071f/1622427222644-V14VSYCFOUSF1P0LGJIG/1D7A0455-Edit.jpg About Dr. Lynn Raine - As a therapist, my mission is to help individuals uncover the root causes of challenges in their lives, build self-awareness, and create meaningful change. I believe therapy is a powerful space where you can safely explore who you are, reclaim your voice, and begin living with confidence, authenticity, and purpose. My approach is compassionate and collaborative. I meet you exactly where you are and sit with you through the pain, uncertainty, or fear you may be experiencing. Together, we create a safe, confidential, and nonjudgmental space where you can explore your story without shame or guilt. From there, we work step by step to peel back the layers, process emotions, and move toward healing, balance, and self-fulfillment. I empower my clients to recognize their strengths, gifts, and resilience. Whether you are navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship struggles, or life transitions, I am here to support your journey toward growth and emotional well-being. My Commitment to You Therapy is not about “fixing” you—it’s about helping you reconnect with your authentic self, heal past wounds, and move toward a life that feels balanced, meaningful, and fulfilling. If you are ready to begin your journey of healing and growth, I am here to walk alongside you every step of the way. My educational background PhD, Clinical Social Work, Smith College, Massachussetts MSW, California State University, Long Beach B.A., Psychology, University of California, Irvine Specialized trainings Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM Level 1 and 2) Gottman Methods Couples Therapy (Level 1 and 2) State Domestic Violence Counseling Certification Window Between Worlds-Trauma-Informed Healing Arts My experience 2009-Present, Private practice, providing individual therapy and group therapy. 2006-Present, University professor, training the next generation of therapists. 2000-2011, Community mental health, providing clinical supervision, individual and group therapy, and case management to children and families, domestic violence survivors, teen sexual offenders, victims of crime, and pregnant women. 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